Questions to JJMM; how often do you have sex with your husband? do you always have orgasm? I have been married for years but I am not sure if I have ever had one...,we made babies of course.
2nd question: How do you turn on your husband? while both of you have full time/demanding jobs with house chores waiting at home?
I am attractive but just could not get my husband want me as much as i want him.
Maybe i should ask for professional help...
any input is much appreciated!!
-eatlovepray(fun4me);
2010-11-11{324}(#15180@28)
Thanks for the pm's. I understand/realize that every couple and everybody is different. Are there anything I can do to increase his demand/interest in having more sex?When manopause comes, women can not enjoy sex as much as before and I do want to enjoy as much as I can before the day comes. I guess it is an obvious imbalance of demand and supply..., any way to increase the supply from my husband's side?
-eatlovepray(fun4me);
2010-11-14{241}(#15181@28)
North America is a Dept Financial Mechanism market. Demand never able to balance the supply. Besides, how could you know the menopause will certainly reduce the enjoyment of your sexual life? Save some for your future.
-glair(五味子);
2011-2-5(#15297@28)
the world always can not balance very well.
-highandhigh(幸福);
2010-11-18(#15183@28)
it is completely wrong only work withyour husband. both man and woman need more than one partners for sure. otherwise it is absolutely boring. I don't know who the fuck firstly make the rule that one partner only in this world. I guess it is one of the ancient king :)
-zimba(XY);
2011-7-10{234}(#15560@28)
Happy family has the same story, unhappy diverse. Very sorry for your situation and don't know how to deal with this either. May be taking your husband to 'strip club' or educating him?
-glair(五味子);
2011-2-5(#15298@28)
just for the record, i have not had sex with my husband for 2 yrs. it is not a big deal if you ignore it.
-enjoytoday(来生不如今世);
2010-12-1(#15207@28)
no-sex-with-husband doesn't mean no-sex-wit-lovers, why need to 压制住?just kidding...lol
-summerpassenger(夏日的风);
2010-12-1{18}(#15209@28)
wow, how old are you? That's abnormal.
-reddust(hongchen);
2010-12-3(#15214@28)
thanks for the suggestion but it really won't work for me. I can not just ingore it...
-eatlovepray(fun4me);
2010-12-3(#15215@28)
at beginning, you feltrelief from sort of routine, then you suspicious about your ability of having sex, then you got depressed:), i laughed because Depressed is a big word, you Know the meaning only when you experienced it; then it's up to you to figure out a solution, either do it yourself or grab a someone.
-enjoytoday(来生不如今世);
2011-3-3{290}(#15328@28)
what have you done to make you forget or ingore the desire? I am trying and will be making myself very busy, but not sure if this will work though
-eatlovepray(fun4me);
2010-12-30(#15243@28)
try to think this way, my dear: having too much sex makes you look older~~
-enjoytoday(来生不如今世);
2011-3-3(#15329@28)
but I have read a few articles and apprently having regular sex makes women look younger.
-eatlovepray(fun4me);
2011-3-10(#15336@28)
definitely you are right
-highandhigh(幸福);
2011-3-12(#15337@28)
you are so wrong, having good sex make your skin glow, look young and keep your heart young. It's not healthy not to have sex for two years. On the other hand, your husband is not here with you? How can he not to have sex for two years too?
-youngatheart(不老青春);
2011-3-28(#15393@28)
Lucky you...since you have a bf who could satisfy you. I do want look young and radiant , I guess I just have to work with what i have and make the best of it.Maybe i should tell him that if he has sex with me 3 times a week, it will seriously consider reducing my expenditure on pricy anti-aging cream and all other cosmetics products that I have been trying to test on myself ( big fat lab guinea pig). You are my best bet and it does not cost a penny!!!
-eatlovepray(fun4me);
2011-3-29{297}(#15409@28)
You really need to talk to each other...
-yaya168(yaya);
2011-3-1(#15325@28)
Apprently he is busy and has no time for excising..., i go to gym 3-4 times a week. i guess i should stop working out...
-eatlovepray(fun4me);
2011-2-6(#15301@28)
You should keep on working out. Working out is not just for sex but for your own well being in the long run.
-toronto_runner(toronto runner);
2011-2-6(#15303@28)
that is correct. actually excercise does not need too much time. like jogging, climbing stairs etc.
-harderandharder(忘了性啥);
2011-2-7(#15304@28)
of course, i go to gym to get fit, but apprently it also increses my sexual demand as well, bonus point which i was not expecting...
anyway heading back to gym after the extra long weekend, hope everybody had good holiday
-eatlovepray(fun4me);
2011-4-25(#15493@28)
it's actually not something you can do..the problem is at your hubby.. you just give your best shot and talk to your hubby and figure out why he is no longer intertested in the bed things...take it easy. sis....
-arcadefire(Arcade Fire);
2011-4-30(#15497@28)