哈哈,那些育儿书派上用场了。我记得有本how to raise high EQ的书上,列举了如何培养孩子的克制能力,延缓满足感的能力。我孩子到没有太大的抵触。晚餐时经常有些蜡肠,她特想吃,我和她说只能吃一小块,她答应了,但当然是吃了还想吃,我就跟他说,你答应的话要算数,你要是能保持不再吃了,我们一会多玩一次XX玩具(或是她喜欢的东西)...
how did you know all those details and what I want to say to her? what you wrote is exactly what i want to put on to bianbian's article last night, but i dare not to do that.
-frances1007(天上所有的星);
2010-1-6(#5785193@0)
补充:其实我家小朋友的自控能力很不错的:每次玩电脑,在他旁边摆个闹钟,闹钟响了就自己主动turn off 走人;去朋友家玩,告诉他到几点就要回家,从来不耍脾气;去玩具店,每次玩到妈妈规定的时间都乖乖走人。说到吃嘛,这点还没教他如何控制。
-sshan(妈妈不超人);
2010-1-6(#5785327@0)