the deeper you dig to yourself, others, reasons, consequences, effects, gains/losses, relationships, friendships, etc.. the worse your faith becomes. -c__wang(溪) @费城华人论坛:费城枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum of Philadelphia

Thanks C. Just my true feelings. I just do not want to waste my time and other people's time in making friends with me. -sunny0056(sunny); 2012-2-2 (#7257606@0)

the deeper you dig to yourself, others, reasons, consequences, effects, gains/losses, relationships, friendships, etc.. the worse your faith becomes. -c__wang(溪); 2012-2-2 (#7257613@0)

朋友有朋友的圈子；如果你没有勇气伸出手，那就需要有勇气去拉住别人伸出来的手，否则你就永远都不会有属于你的圈子～～～ -yoyo23(纯水有香); 2012-2-2 (#7257589@0)

right at the moment i start to chat with you, you stick into my heart :D -yoyo23(纯水有香); 2012-2-2 (#7257597@0)

When did you put that stick into my heart? no wonder it is bleeding and hurting!! -member321(5天田); 2012-2-2 (#7257626@0)

oh, how many stickers are there in your heart ~~~:) -yoyo23(纯水有香); 2012-2-2 (#7257637@0)

oh, I c, HOW MANY have you done to my heart?! :-D -member321(5天田); 2012-2-2 (#7257642@0)

come on, don't be so mean. I have only 4 of them. You don't want to kill all of them, do you? -member321(5天田); 2012-2-2 (#7257652@0)

en, I have decided to follow Xiao C's advice that all of the 4 sticks should be left alone. It is not going to harm more if you want to stick more on, so go ahead and do it! -member321(5天田); 2012-2-2 (#7257661@0)

THANKS。但是我觉得太难做到了。有的时候我会想为什么他会要帮我，是不是该相信男人的话。 -sunny0056(sunny); 2012-2-2 {29} (#7257611@0)
Maybe the answer is negative.

the deeper you dig to yourself, others, reasons, consequences, effects, gains/losses, relationships, friendships, etc.. the worse your faith becomes. -c__wang(溪); 23:30 (#7257613@0) -c__wang(溪); 2012-2-2 (#7257615@0)

That's true. Live simple. You seem to be a psychologist. :) I just cannot walk out of the shadow. It has been too harsh for me. -sunny0056(sunny); 2012-2-2 (#7257621@0)

日出东海落西山，愁也一天，喜也一天；遇事不钻牛角尖，人也舒坦，心也舒坦！ -vavav(山野兔子); 12:41 (#7255399@0) -c__wang(溪); 2012-2-2 (#7257666@0)

别说搞对象。。。。就是交普通喷油也要一个层次的。。。。或者说收入差不多滴。。。。否则肯定有一边很难受。。。。 -tigar25(大忽悠); 2012-2-2 (#7257634@0)

假如是爱XB的，有没有都会想办法XB；对于不爱XB的，你也很难知道人有多高～～其实说白了还是人品和层次的问题～～～人以群分应该指的是人性～～～ -yoyo23(纯水有香); 2012-2-2 (#7257645@0)

就说吃饭吧。。。。人家请的哪回轮到你回请都需要咬牙的数。。。。两次之后你就不会再去了。。。。出门旅行和你一起去的喷油要么嫌酒店贵。。。。要么省钱不玩。。。。一次就够了。。。。你和ta都够了没有下次。。。。其实你。。。。 -tigar25(大忽悠); 2012-2-3 {50} (#7257701@0)
可以数数周围处得来的喷油收入应该跟你差不离。。。。

嗯，可能没交过相差太过悬殊的朋友，这种体会没那么深。也可能是我自己神经比较大条～～～：D -yoyo23(纯水有香); 2012-2-3 (#7258006@0)

别说叫普通朋友，打麻将也得是收入差不多的。否则，杠头开花还要扔掉，难受啊。。。 -lifeisgoodd(life is fun); 2012-2-3 (#7258010@0)

自私的是没事了就凑上去占便宜的，象你这样无私的才会选择远离别人。至于说不好意思再和朋友来往，其实一点关系也没有，想起来了就邀请一下，不来就算了。这里的人情关系本来就很loose，不用怕欠人情，也不用老想着怎么还人情，大家多数都是喜欢这点才留这的。 -c1xwy(洪兴罩俺去战斗); 2012-2-2 (#7257662@0)
看看自己跟周围的邻居啊同事啊认识的人啊有没有什么共同爱好，象打球啊，hiking啊，跳舞啊，瑜伽啊，gym啊，自己设法去approach别人，肯定能找到一起玩一起聊的，自己要给自己信心 -fly_universe(飞越时空); 2012-2-3 (#7257681@0)
同意，就是这样的 -di09(cii); 2012-2-3 (#7257710@0)
圈子？那不就把自己局限起来了吗？相处久了，自然交集就多了，一个人可以跨越不同圈子的吧？ -cactus101(贤锡饭); 2012-2-3 (#7257895@0)
为什么你要对那些留不住的朋友耿耿于怀？对友谊，一样要学会let go。哪怕你在这个世界上一个朋友都没有，你也要做自己最好的朋友，make yourself happy every single minute. -princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟); 2012-2-3 (#7257970@0)

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