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Darling, Jane Austin's time is very very different from out time now :-).

本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛There is no more such "universal acknowledgement" in my opinion. There are various solutions beyond the pursuit of a husband to improve the strengths of a young lady. Property rights and marriage laws have been totally rewritten. You can choose a man that will bring you up to wider social network, or better financial prospects or in general, more livelihood in life, but you need certain equity too, either in your beauty, personality, or personal/professional skills, as an investment to attract such prospective returns. Married or not, have a fair and pleasant exchange. So think more what YOU an put in in any relationship and of course, be confident.

I seriously disagree with your conclusion. It certinaly sounds angelic. But a lady's kiss is a beautiful gift for a man, not anything indecent. There are many men in our modern time who appreciate women making a pass at them, believe it or not. Men don't think or behave as delicately as women do in general. Good girls are heavenly, but there is nothing wrong in experimenting being a wild bad girl once in a while on a necessary occassions. Try it and it will give your new feminine power and glow.

Don't waste your precious youth with shyness, lack of communication skills, or lack of inner confidence dear! Be an honourable go-getter :-).更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
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  • 上次写了见面一次的失败经历, 现在写写见面两次的失败经历
    本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛注:所有故事兼虚构故事。 如有雷同,纯属巧合

    I forgot what website has connected us and led to the meeting in the virtual world. Sometimes you get to be surprised about the magic power of internet. During my university years, I bought a magazine named "Crazy English" which introduced a movie starring by Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks. It has left me great impression.

    It is universially acknowledged that a woman with limit social contact and lack of certain abilities might be in great need of a husband. I guess I inferred the conclusion somewhere from Jane Austen's novels. For me, who is extremely introvert and short of flexibility/creativity, I might be desperately searching solutions to loneliness. It was at that moment.

    After a few correspondence, we added each other on MSN to get to know each other better. I was a university student at that time, although I was senior to most of my schoolmates as I wasted 2-3 years in major change and language improvement. On the contrary, his background seemed to be brilliant, a master degree from a prestigious Canadian University, a CFA chartered holder, and a professional. He was several years older than me. He was talkative and humorous; straightforward in the conversation. All of these turned out to be the bonus to the plain looking appearance. To be honest, everybody looks ordinary; what impresses us most should be the inner beauty. In my eyes, a man doesn't need to be handsome for attractiveness. The most appealing part is when a woman can see something through his eyes and when I can feel his heart. We had casual chat, and it almost covered everything, from global economy to family issues. He even asked me how I would feel being a housewife in the future. I laughed and responded that as long as one is with someone you love, everything could be acceptable. He also talked about his ex girlfriend and the reason for separation. The whole talk appeared to be a conversation between old friends instead of first time meeting net friends. The intuition told me that I like this guy for his candidness and intelligence. Maybe I will fall in love with him? Happy times always passed very quickly. After I got home, I left a message on his messanger, hey, I was too shy to say that I was expecting a hug from you during the meeting. Till now I do not know whether it is appropriate to say so.

    He replied promptly that he was also about to ask the same thing. Let's leave the friend hugs till the next time. Probably it is authentically true that there should be some reactions to the respond of a warm hug. It might not be irresistable when the lonely souls require some kind of treatment. Especially for female, why not taking the chance to be conquered. The result is obvious, we hugged and kissed each other, but we didn't break up the bottom line. It was still good to have hugs and kisses when the chemistry can possibly lead to love. These were just my simple thoughts, and guys could have more complicated concerns. He began to escape me after this incident and no longer wanted to be a friend. Just like being a friend is a mutual way, you cannot bug someone if he totally loses interest in doing so. Whether it is friendship, or love or whatever relationship, it should be communicated in both ways. There is also a word in my dictionary called " Giving up". I guess I ought to give up and I do not want to be a loser all the time. Begging for friendship or love relationship is not a good deal.

    My conclusion is that when a single woman kisses a man other than her husband/boyfriend, then she could be described as indecency. I am not in any kind of relationship, so the best thing to do is forget about anything intimate. For guys, it might be okay for them to do something no matter what relationship they are in as long as it is not breaking the law. Breaching moral standards is condemned, so what? What is the consequence?

    Years later, I found his facebook profile accidently. The pictures seem to be very nice and family oriented. I saw the marriage picture, I saw the beautiful and elegant bride, and I could feel the sweetness of love and family. I didn't add him as a facebook friend because it could seem stupid for me. I sent blessings to them, yet they may never know. Although I believe in gender equality, guys are always in a position more superior, when they have the power and wealth, it wouldn't be hard to find angels.

    Life means a lot and offers a lot, happiness, sadness, desires... I write something doesn't necessarily mean I want to prove something or I want to gain sympathy. Think as a man while you can differentiate love and sexual actions so easily; on the other hand, think as a woman, while both of the two elements seem equally important. Under the circumstance you cannot find both, just do something else. There are probably more stuffs in the life for exploration.

    To be continued.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
    • 呵呵,白写那么多了,都没人搭理你,失败中的失败。:)
      • Just a composed story. not a real story and the possible purpose is to improve my English.
        • 呵呵,显摆贴,鉴定完毕。:)
    • Darling, Jane Austin's time is very very different from out time now :-).
      本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛There is no more such "universal acknowledgement" in my opinion. There are various solutions beyond the pursuit of a husband to improve the strengths of a young lady. Property rights and marriage laws have been totally rewritten. You can choose a man that will bring you up to wider social network, or better financial prospects or in general, more livelihood in life, but you need certain equity too, either in your beauty, personality, or personal/professional skills, as an investment to attract such prospective returns. Married or not, have a fair and pleasant exchange. So think more what YOU an put in in any relationship and of course, be confident.

      I seriously disagree with your conclusion. It certinaly sounds angelic. But a lady's kiss is a beautiful gift for a man, not anything indecent. There are many men in our modern time who appreciate women making a pass at them, believe it or not. Men don't think or behave as delicately as women do in general. Good girls are heavenly, but there is nothing wrong in experimenting being a wild bad girl once in a while on a necessary occassions. Try it and it will give your new feminine power and glow.

      Don't waste your precious youth with shyness, lack of communication skills, or lack of inner confidence dear! Be an honourable go-getter :-).更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
    • 学习了各位的英文,谢谢!
    • too long, in brief --- met a dreamed man, touched. kissed but no sex
      • 她贴的原文太长,看着乏味,直接跳到硬先生这儿了。还是硬先生言简意赅,文章写得有大家风范,而且给读者留下了很多的想象空间
      • 呵呵,学习了,打个奔儿就写这么长,这要是上床了不得弄出部英文红楼来?:)
        • 你没看到最后一句话:”To be continued“.?别急,英文红楼马上来了,然后这个坛子就被撑爆了
    • 为什么抱了亲了之后那男的就逃了?
      • so, what you want to know for the rest?
      • 其实我也不清楚,随便写写的。
        • 大家都在等下文哪?譬如:in and out.....
      • 呵呵,口臭?熏跑了。太肥?拱跑了。:)
      • 很简单,再不跑MM就要收钱了
    • 一个小女仔的花痴梦.