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  • 不谈情,只说爱 不谈情,只说爱 +2
    情是精神的产物,跟灵魂为伍,要在特定的环境或情形下经过神经系统的催化作用方可产生,情属于精神世界里的奢侈品。

    爱是物质的,是用行动体现出来的,空洞的爱就像是天空中漂浮的云彩美好但不实际,所以懂爱的人不轻易说出 I love you 而只说 I like you, 因为这爱里有承诺有责任。

    理想的婚姻里应该是有情有爱,精神和物质的完美结合,什么都不缺。但现实的婚姻里有多少人是既有情又有爱呢?于是很多人不谈情只说爱,当然这爱应该是那份责任吧。

    更有甚者把这个爱直接变成对老婆交公粮,对情人只做爱了。

    于是就产生了一种境界,有爱无情:P
    • 你想要啥:情, 爱, 爱情, 还是情爱? +1
      • 你说呢? +5
        当然是有爱情亦或有情爱的男女关系了,但是我想要就会有吗? 所以得之我幸,不得我命。

        如果在茫茫人海中能遇到那个彼此等了很久才出现的人,那就勇敢的去爱啊,管他是谁,我是单身我怕谁! :D

        最差也要找个令自己赏心悦目的人给自己物质的爱吧,民以食为天,食色性也。
        • 我认为你是对的
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    • I think they are inseparable and we can't really talk one thing without touching the other. People think differently, but I am sure you know what you are looking for. :) Passenger - The One You Love I think they are inseparable and we can't really talk one thing without touching the other. People think differently, but I am sure you know what you are looking for. :) Passenger - The One You Love +1
      • Thanks! A nice one:) I'm trying to be the one who has reached to that "境界" of "有爱无情“, although it's hard for women to seperate feeling only enjoy sex itself, feeling obsessed really hurt! +1
        • You know what you want but you cannot get it so still looking... Your posting are interesting but cannot meet the need from audience - "望梅不止渴“. Therefore nobody responds to it and it is just like you said "冷冷清清凄凄惨惨". :-)
          • 那就当自娱自乐吧,呵呵。再说表面的冷清不代表没有春泉暗流涌动哦!:P
            • 当然pm肯定不少了,但是春泉未必涌动,:p
              • 要都涌动就麻烦了,成大熊猫了人见人爱,不 对,是见一个爱一个!:P
        • Nothing wrong with having feelings. Men and women are not much different on this. With love, you feel hurt; without love, you feel a void inside you. If all you want is sex, it shouldn't be this difficult to find, should it? +1
          • That's true. You know me at this point but what I thought life can do nothing in finding true love, wasting hormone will be void both inside and outside, why don't we do "有爱无情” ?:) +1
    • 应该说只调情,不说爱:) +2
      • 也可以呀,调情能提高工作效率:) +1
        • 调不好的话伤神
          • 哈哈,一看就是调的少呀,谁先伤神谁先S!
            • 调太多伤身:p
              • 真的吗?我怎么越调越来精神呀,工作一天下来都不觉得累,很有动力健身美容购物,越活越年轻了:) +1
                • 王菲:用极端的情绪去抓住一个虚幻的概念,徒劳而绝望。因此要了解自我的虚幻本质,才有可能避免对它的执着吧。\想要彻底解忧,必须了解忧的本质,否则也只是在现象上做挣扎。了即解。
                  • 菲姐说的很好!如果觉得在家吃面条拌西红柿酱好就真没必要下馆子去吃Pasta:-)
    • 请不要, 说那些 甜言和蜜语 那一句, 我爱你 我已经听腻 我愿意 用感觉 体味这情意 这份情 深几许 了然在心底 -- 龙飘飘.细细品味 +1
      • 嗯,很不错,谢谢! +1
    • 只有情,没能爱的也是有的。
      • 嗯,肯定有,帕拉图式?或者。。。
    • 淫欲,爱,依恋。
    • 这个贴子有些老了, 这个贴子有些老了, +3
      但是说的是实话,爱太重,真正懂的爱的人不会轻易说出口,懂爱的情人也不会轻易索取,因为情应该是愉悦的,轻松的。好情人知道正是因为爱给了对方太多压力,所以才有彼此。如果你有一个爱人要懂得感恩,她让你的存在不轻如鸿毛,但同样如果你有一个情人也应该感恩,她让你活地更坚强,更纯粹。
      • 老好帖要顶
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    • Love or lust
      • 七年前的帖子被你顶上来😅 lust 是什么意思
    • 花儿总结的非常清晰和到位。开课吧,我们共鸣