告诉我，Today I filled Ms. S? 的bucket, Michiel filled mine and Mommy you filled mine too...
后来和她一起又读了一遍。
书中，把每个人的happiness形像成一个invisible bucket. 你给别人一笑，给别人一些温暖，对方的bucket就满了。反之，对别人凶，不nice, 你就成了bucket dipper. 把别人的happiness给拿走了。
读到bucket dipper的时候，女儿说，Mom, I don't want to be bucket dipper. I just want to be bucket filler to make people happy.
后来和她爸爸一起感概，这里孩子的德育教育，是那么的通俗易懂，从娃娃抓起。。。
我把内容摘录下来，再带俩图，觉得有需要的家长可以去图书馆借。
All day long, everyone in the whole world walks around carrying an invisible bucket.
You can't see it, but it's there.
You have a bucket. Each member of your family has a bucket.
Your grandparents, friends, and neighbors all have a bucket.
Everyone carries an invisible bucket.
Your bucket has one purpose only.
Its purpose is to hold your good thoughts and good feelings about yourself.
You feel very happy and good when your bucket is full, and you fell very sad and lonely when your bucket is empty.
Other people feel the same way too.
They are happy when their buckets are full and they are sad when their buckets are empty.
It's great to have a full bucket and this is how it works...
You need other people to fill your bucket and other people need you to fill theirs. So how do you fill a bucket?
You fill a bucket when you show love to someone, when you say or do something kind, or even when you give someone a smile.
That's being a bucket filler.
A bucket filler is a loving, caring person who says or does nice things that make other feel special.
When you make someone feel special, you are filling a bucket.
But, you can also dip into a bucket and take out some good fillings. You dip into a bucket when you make fun of someone, when you say or do mean things, or even when you ignore someone.
That's being a bucket dipper.
A bully is a bucket dipper.
A bucket dipper says or does mean things that make others feel bad.
Many people who dip have an empty bucket. They think they can fill their own bucket by dipping into someone else's....but that will never work.
You never fill your own bucket when you dip into someone else's.
But guess what...
When you fill someone's bucket, you fill yours too!
You feel good when you help others feel good.
All day long, we are either filling up or dipping into each other's buckets by what we say and what we do.
Try to fill a bucket and see what happens.
You love your mom and dad. Why not tell them you love them? You can even tell them why.
Your caring words will fill their bucket right up.
Watch for smiles to light up their faces. You will feel like smiling too. A smile is a good clue that you have filled a bucket.
If you practice, you will become a great bucket filler.
Just remember that everyone carries an invisible bucket, and think of what you say or do to fill it.
Here are some ideas for you......还有几页，没时间。自己找书看吧。
