Opening car doors for women is a nice, polite thing to do. It just isn't an important part of 'being nice'. Some women may question the motives or would feel demeaned by this act. Respect Diversity, Respect Women in the way they want to be respected. -mikesmith(老猫) @费城华人论坛:费城枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum of Philadelphia

枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 刚才在另一中文网站看到一篇调教男人为太太开车门的文章，结果一路板砖。。。^^ -princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟); 2012-10-22 {251} (#7854702@0)
为太太开车门只是举手之劳，太太会觉得你很体贴，为什么不愿意做呢？自己不愿意做，别人做还有意见，说人家假，不理解。。。我老公不仅为我开车门，我坐进去后，他还会温柔地检查一下，make sure车门不会碰到我才会关上。不过我没有调教过他，从认识他第一天开始就这样。

你俩每天都同车出入。。。。？如是表扬。。。。否则偶一为之俺也行。。。。拉凳子。。。。大老远跑去陪吃午饭啥滴。。。。 -tigar25(大忽悠之切你没商量); 2012-10-22 (#7854717@0)
some women will get totally pissed off if a man dare to open car doors for them...so the answer is "it depends"...always respect the woman's wishes... -mikesmith(老猫); 2012-10-22 (#7854720@0)

俺有好几次停好车。。。。跑过去开门。。。。她已经站在门边咧。。。。是不是应该跟她说：别动。。。。 -tigar25(大忽悠之切你没商量); 2012-10-22 {24} (#7854730@0)
等俺来给你开门。。。。？

很多时候我也先跳下车的。但每次上车，他必陪我走到车门边，给我开。 -princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟); 2012-10-22 (#7854800@0)
你最有绅士风度的了。 -19830(不懂！？); 2012-10-22 (#7854825@0)

为神马她反复提带黑豆出去玩。。。。却从来不offer带俺。。。。？是不是被照顾惯了。。。。要找一个嘴甜但没行动滴玩玩。。。。？ -tigar25(大忽悠之切你没商量); 2012-10-22 (#7854832@0)

说说。。。。让俺老怀安慰一哈很难么。。。。？ -tigar25(大忽悠之切你没商量); 2012-10-22 {56} (#7854859@0)
泼硫酸。。。。？文明人不干那事。。。。连想都不想。。。。

can you explain the meaning of getting piss off and why? -19830(不懂！？); 2012-10-22 (#7854783@0)

I am waiting for that answer too. I've never seen any women pissed of because a man opened car door for her. Maybe laomao had that experience -:) -princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟); 2012-10-22 (#7854793@0)
Opening car doors for women is a nice, polite thing to do. It just isn't an important part of 'being nice'. Some women may question the motives or would feel demeaned by this act. Respect Diversity, Respect Women in the way they want to be respected. -mikesmith(老猫); 2012-10-22 (#7854804@0)

Are you a woman? How do you conclude this? by your imagination? -princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟); 2012-10-22 (#7854810@0)

You can post this question to 女 IDs on rolia, and see what's their response? I bet you won't get one sided answer.. -mikesmith(老猫); 2012-10-22 (#7854815@0)

wow, if a wife would question the motives or feel demeaned because her husband opens the car door for her, so...what would she feel if you want to kiss her? Or cook for her , wash her underwears... -princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟); 2012-10-22 (#7854822@0)

well, we are living in such a diverse world..isn't multiculturalism Toronton's brand name? Customs could be much different on how to show affections..i.e. i will be totally freaked out if a woman 跪着喂我饭.. -mikesmith(老猫); 2012-10-22 (#7854836@0)

不知道老猫每天为太太做饭是不是要先征求她的同意，确定没有insult她，或她不会暴跳如雷 -：）把常识性的礼节解释成那样子，也只有老猫做得到 -：） -princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟); 2012-10-22 (#7854828@0)

习惯不同而已。非洲有个部落，每到餐的时候，男人端坐，女的跪着喂男人饭，你问他们女人，她们说只是举手之劳，只有这样的女人才被认为贤惠。你可以回家如此对待你老公了，不要提异议 -xybca(摇曳秋风的葱); 2012-10-22 (#7854782@0)

没，只是吃饱了闲扯两句。看到一些移到淮北的橘子说淮南的橘子那不叫橘子，我禁不住说两句：人崇洋媚外可以，但没必要妄自菲薄到说外国人放屁都是香的 -xybca(摇曳秋风的葱); 2012-10-22 (#7854817@0)

你真是太搞笑了。开车门与擦屁股放到一块儿。噢，我不知道你还有在公众场合给擦屁股的勇气。 -princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟); 2012-10-22 (#7854858@0)

开不开，不是原则问题，顺其自然吧。何苦一定要去刻意“调教”呢。如果有好命享受男人的绅士风度自然好；但是没有那么好命还不能放低身价，那不是自个儿难受么。说白了，小姐身子小姐命没问题，但是如果是丫鬟命，那还是别把自个儿当个小姐的好。:-) -lilianliang(彪妹); 2012-10-22 (#7854864@0)

我的问题是简单的，能让女人开心的事，为什么不愿意做？自己不愿意做，人家做了还说风凉话。顺便问问，你老公给你开车门，你会生气吗？ -princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟); 2012-10-22 (#7854885@0)

不会啊。但是我可能都不会注意到他给我开了车门。仔细回想了一下，下车的时候他倒是经常给我开车门的，因为我正抱着iphone看小说看得很忘我，开车门是催我下车呢。LOL -lilianliang(彪妹); 2012-10-22 (#7854909@0)

@Philadelphia