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@Philadelphia

My boss

iou(笨恐龙)
本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛My previous boss was an elderly gentleman with experiences who I admire very much. To me, he is more or less alike a fatherhood figure instead of a boss, although he belongs to those very demanding type.

Once, I was rushed to put out a business case result without double checking and, that because he only allowed me to fix my previous mistake in 10 minutes. After I handed it out, without checking, he directly sent the result to the external lawyer. Of course with no confidence about my own result, I became anxious, hesitated, and irritated for several days.

Eventually, I got my chance to vent it out to him one day. I told him about my concerns and feelings, and to my surprise he told me a similar story about himself. The release he got from his priest was when people passed away, the final confesses were all about family, love and friendship, none of them was about work, so he learnt to let go of work by the end of a business day.

As naïve as I was (and still am), I asked him what about career, and yet again, to my surprise he told me that people just didn’t need to prove their ability for multiple times, once proven, it would stay, even when mistakes happened.

I guess sometimes, experiences do matters, and all I need are my confidence and priority.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
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  • 枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / My boss -iou(笨恐龙); 2012-4-12 {1285} (#7428614@0)
    本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛My previous boss was an elderly gentleman with experiences who I admire very much. To me, he is more or less alike a fatherhood figure instead of a boss, although he belongs to those very demanding type.

    Once, I was rushed to put out a business case result without double checking and, that because he only allowed me to fix my previous mistake in 10 minutes. After I handed it out, without checking, he directly sent the result to the external lawyer. Of course with no confidence about my own result, I became anxious, hesitated, and irritated for several days.

    Eventually, I got my chance to vent it out to him one day. I told him about my concerns and feelings, and to my surprise he told me a similar story about himself. The release he got from his priest was when people passed away, the final confesses were all about family, love and friendship, none of them was about work, so he learnt to let go of work by the end of a business day.

    As naïve as I was (and still am), I asked him what about career, and yet again, to my surprise he told me that people just didn’t need to prove their ability for multiple times, once proven, it would stay, even when mistakes happened.

    I guess sometimes, experiences do matters, and all I need are my confidence and priority.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
    • SF thanks, my dear uncle. -lilianliang(彪妹); 2012-4-12 (#7428626@0)
      • hahaha~~~ -iou(笨恐龙); 2012-4-12 (#7428654@0)
    • SF...唉...又没抢到...好在不用交税...DB....:) -jesse_dd(紫飞鱼); 2012-4-12 (#7428627@0)
      • U -melifeisgoodme(好心情); 2012-4-12 (#7428635@0)
        • 你不想交税？ ：） -jesse_dd(紫飞鱼); 2012-4-12 (#7428651@0)
          • 木钱交。。 -melifeisgoodme(好心情); 2012-4-12 (#7428659@0)
      • hahaha, you guys are so funny -iou(笨恐龙); 2012-4-12 (#7428641@0)
      • DB 是什么? ~~~ 瞧把你急得, 坐稳了没? :) -littlebird09(温和态); 2012-4-12 (#7428905@0)
        • 地板很大...可以躺下...不坐稳也行的...:) -jesse_dd(紫飞鱼); 2012-4-12 (#7428914@0)
          • 我还以为double bed? -melifeisgoodme(好心情); 2012-4-12 (#7428923@0)
            • 真会享受, 比SF 还舒服呢 :) -littlebird09(温和态); 2012-4-12 (#7428936@0)
    • ( to let go of work by the end of a business day ) i used to worry about my work all the time, even dream about my work at night :(, my previous boss told me the same thing. -yoyo23(纯水有香); 2012-4-12 (#7428650@0)
      • I guess once there is priority set, then everything follows -iou(笨恐龙); 2012-4-12 (#7428668@0)
    • Google translate sucks... -imperialgriffin(49-专业跳坑); 2012-4-12 (#7428759@0)
      • huh? you need to translate it into chinese? or did I make mistakes in my post? I can transalte for you when I got home -iou(笨恐龙); 2012-4-12 (#7428848@0)
    • 同人不同命啊！今天我老板问我4月份的CA杂志说了些啥，要我摘取精华告诉他。%^&*$@那书不是寄给他的吗，怎么变成了我去看？跪求斑竹，怎样快速在众多帖子中选取加精？ -princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟); 2012-4-12 (#7428864@0)
      • 贴到rolia上来。。 -melifeisgoodme(好心情); 2012-4-12 (#7428871@0)
        • 已经转给清洁阿婶。我叫她看完后告诉我哪篇文章她能看懂，那么估计那篇我也能看懂，就那篇加精了。 -princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟); 2012-4-12 (#7428907@0)
      • hehe, take a look at the first and last paragraph when you scan through the magazine, it'd help a little. -iou(笨恐龙); 2012-4-12 (#7428891@0)
    • 刚来时会为工作烦心, 有时睡觉也想工作, 现在是真的不会了. 看来是要反省一下我的工作态度了 :) -littlebird09(温和态); 2012-4-12 (#7428878@0)
      • I guess that also means you are getting better and better at what you are doing -iou(笨恐龙); 2012-4-12 (#7428898@0)
        • 也不是, 就是干久了, 人也皮了, 也没有那么大压力了 ~~~ -littlebird09(温和态); 2012-4-12 (#7428933@0)
    • 我过去的同事顶头上司都说过很多次，family is always the most important。。。不少有说到了家都不再想工作的事。。。 -fly_universe(飞越时空); 2012-4-12 (#7428904@0)
      • yeah, indeed -iou(笨恐龙); 2012-4-12 (#7428916@0)
      • 这里的文化就是这样的, Family is always the first priority -littlebird09(温和态); 2012-4-12 (#7428929@0)
        • really? 前天晚上有人扔下family,独自去看blue jays... -princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟); 2012-4-12 (#7428938@0)
          • ... VS WORK, 这里说的是职场 :) -littlebird09(温和态); 2012-4-12 (#7428941@0)
      • 如果文化能进步到在办公室也不用想工作，就好了。。。 -princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟); 2012-4-12 (#7428952@0)
    • 这篇太严肃。。。。不好玩。。。。 -tigar25(大忽悠之Oh～Oh~Oh~～); 2012-4-12 {42} (#7428927@0)
      玩笑哈。。。。下次还是写点好玩的吧。。。。
      • yeah, you are right, this is my last time talking about work here :-) -iou(笨恐龙); 2012-4-12 (#7428942@0)

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