great examples! i just cannot think of this at that moment, thank you. yes, i think so, and i LOVE them both from day one when i knew the story ;) sometimes. even with -lucy09(lucy) @费城华人论坛:费城枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum of Philadelphia

枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 说完手哈，来说个性。偶觉得强势的男人特别性感，偶算是强势的女人，但是遇到比我强势，而且强势的很有道理的男人，偶立马就不强势了。有同感的吗？ -alotgooddays(agoodday); 2011-9-14 (#6914147@0)

以前俺觉得强势的男人性感，现在不了。他们通常都自我中心的很，自私，自以为是，不适合我们这些强势女人。 -9604(眯眯眼); 2011-9-14 (#6914159@0)

嗯。找到另一个强势的女人，握手一下。 -alotgooddays(agoodday); 2011-9-14 (#6914169@0)

I like those who are totally opposite -dang_dang(当当); 2011-9-14 (#6914221@0)

不论男人女人，都要当心远离那种在外弱势对内强势的人 ~~~ -sr-71(I Would If I Could); 2011-9-14 (#6914180@0)

这个很有道理。强势的人，最怕就是里外不分，那样很伤害亲近的人。 -alotgooddays(agoodday); 2011-9-14 (#6914185@0)
Hands up up....... -dang_dang(当当); 2011-9-14 (#6914216@0)
对外胆小怕事，对内硬要占上风，把别人压倒的人？ -shenzhen(nemo); 2011-9-14 (#6914258@0)

94在外面总是装老好人，对爱自己的人却窝里横的 ~~~ -sr-71(I Would If I Could); 2011-9-14 (#6914276@0)

这是一种什么心理？ -shenzhen(nemo); 2011-9-14 (#6914297@0)

It seems not. 我强势的很有道理，但她不喜欢 -fixme(fine in the fire); 2011-9-14 (#6914183@0)

偶偶，那个只适合我，不适合所有人。 -alotgooddays(agoodday); 2011-9-14 (#6914188@0)

你信他呢。强势的人都觉得自己掌握了真理。 -cute99(behappy); 2011-9-14 (#6914198@0)

偶算不上强势，但也不太弱，算中等吧。觉得强势一点，但讲理有情义的男人很性感。 -cute99(behappy); 2011-9-14 (#6914186@0)

对对对，就是这个补充 -alotgooddays(agoodday); 2011-9-14 (#6914193@0)

嗯。对“权利是最好的春药”做了个背书。 -visitor2.0(visitor2.0); 2011-9-14 (#6914197@0)
世态炎凉，怎么这么多强势的女人。女人强势好吗？ -melifeisgoodme(好心情); 2011-9-14 (#6914201@0)

关键是看什么人了。没见楼主说，“见到男人特别性感的，。。。，偶立马就不强势了。”可能也能算是进化论的证据？ -visitor2.0(visitor2.0); 2011-9-14 (#6914215@0)
女人强势也没啥不好。只要讲道理，有情有义就好。。。一般女人强势都是让男人惯的， lz 不是说了吗，一遇到真正强势的男人，她立马服软。。。女人也很无奈啊，当男人们都变得娇滴滴的，女人们只好自己挺起来做他们的大哥。 LOL .... -cute99(behappy); 2011-9-14 (#6914228@0)

因为男人喜欢她，就惯她，难道就一定要强势？对于家庭来说，任何人强势都不可取。 -melifeisgoodme(好心情); 2011-9-14 (#6914244@0)

恋爱中的女人强势的极少。女人恋爱的时期，是女人一生中最具欺骗性的时期。 -visitor2.0(visitor2.0); 2011-9-14 (#6914229@0)
i don't like 强势的男人 -lilianliang(彪妹); 2011-9-14 (#6914273@0)

me either, also I am not a 强势的 woman -dang_dang(当当); 2011-9-14 (#6914417@0)

原理没太闹清楚。。。。屋里的女人刚说个不。。。。就瞪眼睛轮巴掌算。。。。你说的是这样的强势么。。。。？ -tigar25(大忽悠); 2011-9-14 (#6914275@0)

有些人喜欢被虐。 -melifeisgoodme(好心情); 2011-9-14 (#6914281@0)

遇到横的。。。。偶立马就不强势了 -alotgooddays(agoodday); 10:45 (#6914147@0) -tigar25(大忽悠); 2011-9-14 (#6914289@0)

难道这就是天理：对女人一定要狠，把她打翻在地，踏上亿万只脚，让她永世不得翻身，这就是你们喜欢的强势？ -melifeisgoodme(好心情); 2011-9-14 (#6914302@0)

对那样的，割了他的JJ。。。。。 -alotgooddays(agoodday); 2011-9-14 (#6914314@0)

你说的强势到底是哪种。。。。？俺等着排队呢。。。。 -tigar25(大忽悠); 2011-9-14 (#6914320@0)
那就应该天天绑着睡觉，打得没有力气为止。 -melifeisgoodme(好心情); 2011-9-14 (#6914324@0)

蜈蚣啊，亿万之脚 -alotgooddays(agoodday); 2011-9-14 (#6914319@0)

我觉得吧，强势的男人，不是Physically的啊，是心理上，气势上的。你要是是那个李阳，其实动手打得了女人的男人，心理一定不够有气势，才动手的。那个算狗屁的强势啊。 -alotgooddays(agoodday); 2011-9-14 (#6914327@0)

偶说脏话了，要被关禁闭了。 -alotgooddays(agoodday); 2011-9-14 (#6914330@0)

哈哈，强势的后果来了。。。。 -melifeisgoodme(好心情); 2011-9-14 (#6914336@0)

其实你所说的强势，我理解可能就是自信的意思，而楼上有同学误解为嘴硬心卑不讲道理的表面强势（甚至是精神障碍），其实这是相反的概念 ~ -sr-71(I Would If I Could); 2011-9-14 (#6914340@0)

对了。就是这个。男人自信的强势，和那种没有缘由的强势，完全不同的。体力上，他们天生本来就强势啦，还要证明吗？ -alotgooddays(agoodday); 2011-9-14 (#6914348@0)
俺过去有个GF就怕俺做家务。。。。说男人一做家务她就觉得委屈。。。。回家摊沙发上当大爷最好。。。。不然别人会笑话。。。。 -tigar25(大忽悠); 2011-9-14 (#6914357@0)

那咋还变成了EX了？你怎么不喜欢人家啦？ -alotgooddays(agoodday); 2011-9-14 (#6914368@0)

哈哈，因为她不强势。。。 -melifeisgoodme(好心情); 2011-9-14 (#6914375@0)
要求忒低。。。。你会爱上保姆么。。。。？ -tigar25(大忽悠); 2011-9-14 (#6914400@0)

哦，有意思。那你不喜欢保姆型的。 -alotgooddays(agoodday); 2011-9-14 (#6914411@0)

保姆花钱就能找到。。。。而且可以请N个。。。。LP没那么简单吧。。。。？ -tigar25(大忽悠); 2011-9-14 (#6914432@0)

嗯呐。保姆是为了钱干家务，LP是因为 Ai 做家务。呵呵 -alotgooddays(agoodday); 2011-9-14 (#6914511@0)

一头油烟。。。。满身菜味。。。。搂着困觉很爽吗。。。。？ -tigar25(大忽悠); 2011-9-14 (#6914532@0)

hoho~~~~ -dong3213(住在肥皂泡里的牛); 2011-9-14 (#6914422@0)

邓小平强势还是施瓦辛格。。。。？ -tigar25(大忽悠); 2011-9-14 (#6914341@0)

强势是什么意思？~~~~~~~~ -dong3213(住在肥皂泡里的牛); 2011-9-14 (#6914342@0)

看来闹不清LZ意思的不止俺。。。。 -tigar25(大忽悠); 2011-9-14 {151} (#6914364@0)
原理没太闹清楚。。。。屋里的女人刚说个不。。。。就瞪眼睛轮巴掌算。。。。你说的是这样的强势么。。。。？ -tigar25(大忽悠); 11:13 (#6914275@0) reply more
水瓶相对强势！你想一想，你想买一样东西，做一件事，招到LG 反对时，是接受后仍然愉快，还是耿耿于怀，前者弱势，后者强势！ -lighting(别当真；); 2011-9-14 (#6914464@0)

i don't know why, your post give me the feeling of "馴野馬" LOL. please don't be angry with me, i don't mean to insult you at all. :-))))))0 -lilianliang(彪妹); 2011-9-14 (#6914365@0)

偶一点没有生气，偶觉得你看到本质啦。本来就是如此，如果男人不能征服偶，那偶肯定是要踹了他哈。哈哈哈哈。不是体力上的征服，是心理上的降伏。呵呵呵呵。 -alotgooddays(agoodday); 2011-9-14 (#6914376@0)

oh, thank you~ thank you! thank you for not being mad on me. i admire your strong characteristics, keep it, until someday you found someone who can conquer you both physically and mentally~ -lilianliang(彪妹); 2011-9-14 (#6914390@0)
怪不得。。。。。。我知道理由了。 -melifeisgoodme(好心情); 2011-9-14 (#6914391@0)
no, i think that relates to love. if you love him, no matter he is 强势 or not, you will just love the way he is. if you do not, you just do not love him that much.... another -lucy09(lucy); 2011-9-15 {194} (#6916930@0)
aspect i think would be intelligence, if he is smarter than you, you may feel he is 强势?!
but i still will think that, it totally depends on whether you really LOVE him or not. love is blind.

不喜欢强势也不喜欢弱势。谁有道理听谁的。没人永远正确。该让则让，该坚持就坚持，什么事都是个度的问题。 -snow_bird(sunshine); 2011-9-14 (#6914401@0)
Do not forget masculine man loves feminine women, the more he is masculine, the more he wants feminine, he cannot live with another man. -princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟); 2011-9-14 (#6914620@0)

not really. some masculine ones like you are as "strong" as him, mentally speaking, but physically speaking, i think every man like women to be feminine. if a 强势 man is -lucy09(lucy); 2011-9-15 {670} (#6916977@0)
real strong, psychologically strong in mind, he will prefer you being not that "easy"--have your own ideas/career, etc... why he chooses you over other women? there always are many more women beautiful that you, younger than you, and eager to get attentions from him (if he is successful,or attractive...), in this case, i think your mind (intelligence, or characters) is the only way to attract him and keep him for long, you are the challenge to him, right?
only those who is strong outside(pretended), and weak inside (real) person, will prefer woman like a sheep, totally because he knows deep inside (not confident) that he cannot handle you and cannot keep you.

totally agreed! -tianluoguniang(明月人倚楼); 2011-9-15 (#6916983@0)
郝斯佳和白瑞德? -bigfishboom(橡树岭); 2011-9-15 (#6917007@0)

great examples! i just cannot think of this at that moment, thank you. yes, i think so, and i LOVE them both from day one when i knew the story ;) sometimes. even with -lucy09(lucy); 2011-9-15 {756} (#6917372@0)
real love, the person who involves in may not realize that s/he loves another person,
For someone who has "strong" character, even s/he knows in her/his heart that s/he loves that person, s/he will not easily "give up", will not admit her/his own feelings and then will do something "stupid"--just to show to another person that--ha, i am not a easy target. but once they realize/feel the real love from inside, they will act much more "crazy" than common people... bcs, they simply have "strong" feelings, and their love is stronger. can we say real love/soul-mate? they connect with each other through their minds (this also can be explain that, some people can keep long distant relationship)
well, i talk in more psychological ways, sorry.

feminine is sweetness, not weakness -princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟); 2011-9-16 (#6919918@0)

我有点，LG形容这是欺软怕硬。 -abetterworld(一诺); 2011-9-14 (#6914666@0)
同意，硬汉派的铁血柔情最性感。 -tianluoguniang(明月人倚楼); 2011-9-15 (#6916968@0)

虽然侠骨柔肠的辩证统一不容易找到，男人还是应该有点血性的，《白蛇传》中的许仙，《天仙配》中的董永，《西湘记》中的张生，《梁祝》中的梁山伯这些软弱甚至需要女人罩着的男人一点都不可爱 —— 读易中天《中国的男人和女人》有感 ~~~ -sr-71(I Would If I Could); 2011-9-15 (#6916993@0)

同感，这些古典文学中的男性角色都太阴柔，软弱，无能，现代在称WSN。如果将来有孩子，对男孩来讲都不是很好的 role model。没结婚的妹妹们要睬亮眼睛啊。 -tianluoguniang(明月人倚楼); 2011-9-15 (#6917294@0)
怎么把宝二给忘了? -member321(123); 2011-9-15 (#6917427@0)

nod, nod, 鲍鱼哈，这个补充很关键 ~~~ -sr-71(I Would If I Could); 2011-9-15 (#6917657@0)

强势的人也有软弱的时候。。。。关键是什么时候强，什么时候弱，对谁强，对谁弱。 -tyra(Zara); 2011-9-15 (#6917413@0)

@Philadelphia

great examples! i just cannot think of this at that moment, thank you. yes, i think so, and i LOVE them both from day one when i knew the story ;) sometimes. even with

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