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something very interesting:

lilianliang(彪妹)

we have a group of friends, all are ladies.

our ladies have one similarity, that is the husbands don't do much house works including cooking at homes.

but one thing which is very interesting:

when we visit others house, the husbands suddenly changed to "love" cooking, the one even doesn't know where the kitchen is in his family, chopped the meat hardly in others kitchen, and the one never hand-wash dishes, tried to clean all the plates and bowls after dinner by hand.....

but all the ladies are on the opposite, they never do anything when visiting others house, just relax and rest.

according to this, should I say "man is hard-working" and "woman is lazy" because they were seen to be like this?

LOL

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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 关于感情美满与否的感慨： -lilianliang(彪妹); 2011-8-23 {99} (#6871406@0)
感情是否美满，不是看甜蜜的时候如何卿卿我我，而是看有矛盾的时候是否能有效化解……

true or false？

恬退隐忍也要看对象。 -lilianliang(彪妹); 2011-8-23 {141} (#6871415@0)
对有道德的人恬退隐忍是美德；
但是对没道德的人恬退隐忍就是“缺德”了。

当忍已经成为一种习惯，那是一件多么可怕的事情哦。

true or false？

就看值得不值得了 -tyra(Zara); 2011-8-24 (#6871456@0)
忍也要看代价，每个人心里都有一把枰，如何平衡。看看小三，两年了都没有名分，不就是因为：四次郎+ipad+blahblah+肉联YY+。。。人家不是过得挺爽的么 -snowmm(十五); 2011-8-24 (#6871482@0)

iPAD+blahblahblah+肉联YY，都有限，不值什么。四次郎难度有点大。毛主席他老人家伟大啊，早就给男同胞们指引了方向了：身体是革命的本钱！ -cute99(behappy); 2011-8-24 (#6871483@0)

ture。。。与其说是“缺德”，不如说是“悲哀”。。。而隐藏在“习惯”背后的应该是一种深深的无奈。。。 -redsky(忧伤苹果); 2011-8-24 (#6871532@0)

True -tyra(Zara); 2011-8-24 (#6871453@0)
我觉得这两方面都得看。相敬如宾的是没矛盾，但没有卿卿我我，也不能算幸福美满吧。 -cute99(behappy); 2011-8-24 (#6871461@0)

i am not saying happiness is not important, i am saying, how to handle conflict is MORE important. :) -lilianliang(彪妹); 2011-8-24 (#6871538@0)

对，解决问题的合拍才是真的美满。达到解决问题的目的，而且双方都很enjoy这个解决的方法。以后再有问题可以沿用，成为家规。例如：打架/抛硬币/喝酒/。。欢迎大家补充 -snowmm(十五); 2011-8-24 (#6871481@0)
两者都有才能是真正的美满吧，除非双方性格都受不了那第一项，当然第二项肯定更重要就是了 -fly_universe(飞越时空); 2011-8-24 (#6871501@0)

i am not saying happiness is not important, i am saying, how to handle conflict is MORE important. :) -lilianliang(彪妹); 08:35 (#6871538@0) -lilianliang(彪妹); 2011-8-24 (#6871540@0)

那是，要美满，怎样handle问题很重要，是一门艺术 -fly_universe(飞越时空); 2011-8-24 (#6871589@0)

同甘与共苦，一个都不能少 -win(秋天的菠菜); 2011-8-24 (#6871520@0)

i am not saying happiness is not important, i am saying, how to handle conflict is MORE important. :) -lilianliang(彪妹); 08:35 (#6871538@0) -lilianliang(彪妹); 2011-8-24 (#6871541@0)

同甘有关美满；共苦有关可靠。可靠未必美满；但先可靠，才有可能美满。 -cca(不归的如来佛); 2011-8-24 (#6871867@0)

well saying -lilianliang(彪妹); 2011-8-24 (#6871901@0)

千万别有满足感，一旦感到满足，就该悲剧了。 -solitary(中秋); 2011-8-24 (#6871525@0)
true。。。 -redsky(忧伤苹果); 2011-8-24 (#6871529@0)
期望太高一定就会失落。看自己的定位，每个人有不同理解。 -melifeisgoodme(好心情); 2011-8-24 (#6871536@0)
见过你家帅哥后，发现他比我想象中成熟。:-D -abetterworld(之诺); 2011-8-24 (#6871560@0)

内成熟还是外成熟还是都成熟:-)? -fly_universe(飞越时空); 2011-8-24 (#6871590@0)
same feeling~~~ -dong3213(住在肥皂泡里的牛); 2011-8-24 (#6871619@0)
我没想过以前。。。。。。 -tyra(Zara); 2011-8-24 (#6871623@0)
not everyone can behave the SAME inside home as outside home...... :-( -lilianliang(彪妹); 2011-8-24 (#6871629@0)

是的，连我都这样 -tyra(Zara); 2011-8-24 (#6871837@0)
Do you REALLY want someone behaving like that?:-) -cca(不归的如来佛); 2011-8-24 (#6871852@0)

like what??? -lilianliang(彪妹); 2011-8-24 (#6871863@0)

SAME inside home as outside home? -cca(不归的如来佛); 2011-8-24 (#6871868@0)

theoretically, yes. -lilianliang(彪妹); 2011-8-24 {309} (#6871893@0)
life is not a performance, and we are not actors/actresses as well.

be honest to others, means dare not to show your weakness.

unfortunately there is someone always be "perfect" to others, but let his/her close ones down all the time.

isn't it a tragedy?

xu wei for me, is totally unacceptable.

something very interesting: -lilianliang(彪妹); 2011-8-24 {731} (#6871929@0)
we have a group of friends, all are ladies.

our ladies have one similarity, that is the husbands don't do much house works including cooking at homes.

but one thing which is very interesting:

when we visit others house, the husbands suddenly changed to "love" cooking, the one even doesn't know where the kitchen is in his family, chopped the meat hardly in others kitchen, and the one never hand-wash dishes, tried to clean all the plates and bowls after dinner by hand.....

but all the ladies are on the opposite, they never do anything when visiting others house, just relax and rest.

according to this, should I say "man is hard-working" and "woman is lazy" because they were seen to be like this?

LOL

That's cute -- and what's the problem? -cca(不归的如来佛); 2011-8-24 (#6871948@0)

just let you know that the things witnessed by your eyes might not be true. -lilianliang(彪妹); 2011-8-24 (#6872369@0)

Probably no one was going to take it as true anyways.... after all -- in a spousal relationship, do external opinions really matter that much? -cca(不归的如来佛); 2011-8-24 (#6872754@0)

大气，彪妹，大气！ -cca(不归的如来佛); 2011-8-24 {315} (#6871940@0)
Sometimes entrusting is also an intimacy. Everyone has his/her low moments. In modern time, spouses are partners in life, and they may alternately offer/demand shoulders to/from each other -- esp. for someone who's 175cm tall. :-)

You know/trust each other -- so take your due, and you may need a turn soon.

i just hate to be xu wei and hate xu wei people. that's my nature. :p -lilianliang(彪妹); 2011-8-24 (#6872373@0)

That's a great nature! However, xu-wei is a very subtle concept that could be easily mis-defined. -cca(不归的如来佛); 2011-8-24 (#6872771@0)

英文都很棒。 -arrowroot(purple); 2011-9-7 (#6898516@0)

mm, be happy, be charming, ............ to be loved............... -dang_dang(当当); 2011-8-24 (#6871917@0)
TRUE。你都这么好了，而且一向好，有矛盾都不维护你，让人心寒。 -9604(眯眯眼); 2011-9-7 (#6898819@0)

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