本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛快到11岁的儿子要求我帮助申请Twitter帐号, 着实唬了我一跳 !
大大小小的,他在网上有了很多的帐号, virtual money, virtual friends, email, followers, online game, blogs, ... "Daddy, I just don't want to have a Facebook right now. Twitter is more interesting !"
这是个天分很高的孩子(请原谅作为父亲的偏爱, ,,, 弟弟的悟性更高,这是将来的烦恼), 他可以孩子气的玩, 带弟弟妹妹, 和朋友追追打打, 但聊起来所有人会惊讶于他的成熟, 口才, 知识面的广博, 快捷掌握,本性的善良及自我的理解.
"Mom, daddy, I get bored. I found out I have no goal now, and don't know what to do in my future. When I think about my 18, wow, there are only 8 years left. "
"It is perfectly OK not to have any goal for now, you are just a little kid. ", 我想起曾对他bluh bluh bluh 的当医生,教师, 工程师一类的话, 心想这些确实很无聊,很烦心不是?
"Forget about what you will be in the future. 8 years is long enough. You even don't know what will happen within a year. I believe your goal is to enjoy every moment you have and get done everything you should do in a prefect, beautiful manner. "
"So why don't you let me have Twitter account? That will be fun and will communicate with more friends better...'
这个问题的确很tough, 值得每个父母去认真思考.
沉吟片刻, 我给他的回答是:
在网络中,它给你的东西太多太多, 没有真假, 每时每刻, ,,,,, 你的生活平添了许许多多的复杂. 你真的需要这许多, 真的需要这些复杂?
你上网以后, 我们遗憾的发现, 你读书少了, 练琴少了, 动手玩玩具的时候少了, 对弟弟妹妹有时不太耐烦, 玩的游戏也开始趋向于简单, 打杀, 挣分, ... 这些, 离真实的生活, 真实的世界, 越来越远了...
你应该有no game day, 享受一分安静,从容, 静静的看书, 听音乐, 认认真真的和身边的朋友交往, 踢好每一场球, 浇好后院的每一棵树, ,,,
你不用去想以后怎样去考哈佛, ,,,, enjoy 每一天, 就像上台阶, 以后上到哪, 就是哪,不会太有错.
"Daddy, I sometimes got up early in the morning, and I wanted to practice guitar in study room to begin my new day, then I saw you were in the room, reading Rolia..."
大家都乐了.
"你知道吗? 爸爸国内曾经抽烟, 抽了十年, 后来越抽越凶, 每天两包. 后来到了美国上学,开始新生活, 知道以后会有你, 从第一天开始戒, 直到现在."
"这烟,在国内也曾戒过, 喊了无数次也戒不掉. 这次一下就戒了. 为什么? 因为爸爸爱你们, 爱妈妈,"
"这次为了你, 我要有所改变. "
"Life is simple, simple is beautiful. Just do it. I say it, I mean it. "更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
大大小小的,他在网上有了很多的帐号, virtual money, virtual friends, email, followers, online game, blogs, ... "Daddy, I just don't want to have a Facebook right now. Twitter is more interesting !"
这是个天分很高的孩子(请原谅作为父亲的偏爱, ,,, 弟弟的悟性更高,这是将来的烦恼), 他可以孩子气的玩, 带弟弟妹妹, 和朋友追追打打, 但聊起来所有人会惊讶于他的成熟, 口才, 知识面的广博, 快捷掌握,本性的善良及自我的理解.
"Mom, daddy, I get bored. I found out I have no goal now, and don't know what to do in my future. When I think about my 18, wow, there are only 8 years left. "
"It is perfectly OK not to have any goal for now, you are just a little kid. ", 我想起曾对他bluh bluh bluh 的当医生,教师, 工程师一类的话, 心想这些确实很无聊,很烦心不是?
"Forget about what you will be in the future. 8 years is long enough. You even don't know what will happen within a year. I believe your goal is to enjoy every moment you have and get done everything you should do in a prefect, beautiful manner. "
"So why don't you let me have Twitter account? That will be fun and will communicate with more friends better...'
这个问题的确很tough, 值得每个父母去认真思考.
沉吟片刻, 我给他的回答是:
在网络中,它给你的东西太多太多, 没有真假, 每时每刻, ,,,,, 你的生活平添了许许多多的复杂. 你真的需要这许多, 真的需要这些复杂?
你上网以后, 我们遗憾的发现, 你读书少了, 练琴少了, 动手玩玩具的时候少了, 对弟弟妹妹有时不太耐烦, 玩的游戏也开始趋向于简单, 打杀, 挣分, ... 这些, 离真实的生活, 真实的世界, 越来越远了...
你应该有no game day, 享受一分安静,从容, 静静的看书, 听音乐, 认认真真的和身边的朋友交往, 踢好每一场球, 浇好后院的每一棵树, ,,,
你不用去想以后怎样去考哈佛, ,,,, enjoy 每一天, 就像上台阶, 以后上到哪, 就是哪,不会太有错.
"Daddy, I sometimes got up early in the morning, and I wanted to practice guitar in study room to begin my new day, then I saw you were in the room, reading Rolia..."
大家都乐了.
"你知道吗? 爸爸国内曾经抽烟, 抽了十年, 后来越抽越凶, 每天两包. 后来到了美国上学,开始新生活, 知道以后会有你, 从第一天开始戒, 直到现在."
"这烟,在国内也曾戒过, 喊了无数次也戒不掉. 这次一下就戒了. 为什么? 因为爸爸爱你们, 爱妈妈,"
"这次为了你, 我要有所改变. "
"Life is simple, simple is beautiful. Just do it. I say it, I mean it. "更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net