If no specific reason, why not going on with breast-feeding? Breast-feeding is such a wonderful experience and enjoyable time I have ever had...

joyy(joyy)

I was back to work when my son was 6 months at that time and was going on with breast-feeding. I believe it’s the right thing for me to do. I used 10-20 minus and twice a day, to express milk with my hands. Needless to say, hands are better than any other mechanical or electrical tools. After work, I fed him immediately and left the expressed milk for next day.

When my son reached his14 months, I decided to wean him. It’s really a hard work for both my son and I, emotionally and physically. Finally, I switched to another way. It is proved to be an effective way. I left my son with his grandparents for 2 weeks completely. When coming back, my son didn’t ask for breast-milk any more. He started to like formula.

Above is my experience, I am not sure if it’s fit you or not, just want to give some clue.

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Last Updated: 2003-10-20
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贴错地了! -flying_cloud(流云); 2003-10-19 (#1421325@0)

用奶瓶试着喂水和奶.不要求宝宝一次能吃很多.我女儿开始只吃15ML,30ML还要大哭一场.但是一天天的进步,.陪着女儿哭了差不多半个月,后来她也接受奶瓶了.坚持就是胜利,如果你太心软,副食加不上会影响宝宝的发育. -203658(菊花茶); 2003-10-19 (#1421466@0)

谢谢你, 可能每次看她哭的稀里花拉的,就心软了.好, 我多试试. -flying_cloud(流云); 2003-10-20 (#1422332@0)

我有同样的烦恼，试过各种奶粉和各式各样奶嘴，她只是拿来咬着玩，就是不喝。米糊也不肯吃，后来朋友教我给她煮粥和烂面条，她倒肯吃。但如何断奶仍是个大问题。：（ -julia2000(自由鸟); 2003-10-20 (#1422349@0)

不能给宝宝不断试不同奶粉.孩子肠胃很弱,经不起这种折腾.换换奶嘴就行了.看看会不会奶嘴眼太小了,宝宝吸得费劲也不会好好吃奶的. -epoch(epoch); 2003-10-20 (#1422389@0)

谢谢提醒！ -julia2000(自由鸟); 2003-10-20 (#1422391@0)
有道理,这些天买了不同的奶粉给她试, 结果她都不肯吃.其实我发现是个习惯问题,宝宝最大的问题是不肯吃奶嘴, 我把奶泵出来,她也不肯吃. 最重要的是还得训练她吃奶瓶. -flying_cloud(流云); 2003-10-20 (#1422427@0)

你的宝宝多大了？ -flying_cloud(流云); 2003-10-20 (#1422449@0)

快八个半月了。 -julia2000(自由鸟); 2003-10-20 (#1422452@0)

和我们家宝宝差不多大. -flying_cloud(流云); 2003-10-20 (#1422457@0)

谢谢你写得为宝宝治湿疹的帖子，很有用，我家宝宝湿疹差不多都好了。 -julia2000(自由鸟); 2003-10-20 (#1422474@0)

什么时候应该给孩子短奶啊？如果只能母乳喂养三四个月，换奶粉是不是会很难？ -qqqqq(qqqqq 有翼自薄); 2003-10-20 (#1422378@0)

宝宝越小越好换,妈妈的奶越好越难换.最好妈妈能喂半年.母乳里的抗体不可多得. -epoch(epoch); 2003-10-20 (#1422384@0)

可是如果上了班，再母乳喂养就很麻烦了吧？有人这样试过吗？ -qqqqq(qqqqq 有翼自薄); 2003-10-20 (#1422393@0)

我朋友是把奶泵出来放冰箱里，每天一次。 -julia2000(自由鸟); 2003-10-20 (#1422399@0)
挤出来放在冰箱里.不过,你白天就要受罪了.不过为了宝宝也值得. -epoch(epoch); 2003-10-20 (#1422404@0)
再请问，是每天一次呢，还是每隔几个小时就要有一次？书上怎么说8小时内要两三次？也太麻烦了：( -qqqqq(qqqqq 有翼自薄); 2003-10-20 (#1422428@0)

如果条件允许，再喂一段时间。我的宝宝到10个月的时候自己就自动断掉了。 -dian(点点); 2003-10-20 (#1422424@0)

怎么自动断掉的呢, 我们这个小家伙, 不喝其它任何东西, 水从来没喝过, 副食倒是吃一些, 但只能用勺子喂. 请问你是用什么办法? -flying_cloud(流云); 2003-10-20 (#1422431@0)

我挺早的时候就开始自己喂和BOTTLE混合喂(PUMP出来的母乳)，7个月以后母乳减少就开始加FORMULAR。 -dian(点点); 2003-10-20 {162} (#1422461@0)
我想宝宝后来自动断奶可能是发现喝BOTTLE要痛快得多。母乳喂养期间我没有给宝宝喝过水，因为母乳的含水成份本身就很高。这也不会造成他以后不爱喝水--他现在象个小水桶一样。

我们的麻烦是宝宝不肯喝奶瓶。：（ -julia2000(自由鸟); 2003-10-20 (#1422467@0)

我在上培训班的时候, 很多妈妈都说他们的孩子断奶的时候,不肯吃奶瓶, 直接用奶杯. 所以你不用愁, 慢慢地用奶杯训练她喝奶就行了. -flying_cloud(流云); 2003-10-20 (#1422546@0)

好几个朋友都是这样自动断的. 你还好十个月才自动断的, 我的几个朋友混合喂养的, 四个月孩子就不肯吃妈妈奶了,因为还是吃奶瓶痛快. 以后再生小孩的话, 至少在她小的时候就得训练她用奶瓶喝水, 否则越大越难训练. -flying_cloud(流云); 2003-10-20 (#1422541@0)

同意，第二个孩子我一定采用混合喂养，断起来容易。 -julia2000(自由鸟); 2003-10-20 (#1422550@0)

水要坚持喂，我家女儿很爱喝水，用水杯，avent有一种水杯很好用，喝水的嘴是软的，而且不会泼。但我用水杯装了奶粉，小家伙就不喝了。：（ -julia2000(自由鸟); 2003-10-20 (#1422463@0)

我也在训练她喝水杯, 她现在还不肯喝, 前两天嘴唇都裂了. 现在天天让她拿水杯玩, 时不时往她嘴里送, 希望慢慢地她就喝了. -flying_cloud(流云); 2003-10-20 (#1422526@0)

试试看果汁她喝不喝？ -julia2000(自由鸟); 2003-10-20 (#1422531@0)

不喝,鲜榨的也不肯. 她看我们吃水果,她就要舔舔, 给她榨出汁来, 她就不喝了. 买的小孩的果汁,她更不肯. 奇怪,都说小孩子愿意喝果汁, 我家宝宝为什么不肯. -flying_cloud(流云); 2003-10-20 (#1422535@0)

其实你家宝宝只要肯喝水杯就好办多了. 她只是不喜欢奶粉的味道. 你可以在副食里,比如米粥里一点点加点奶粉, 慢慢地她适应这个味道就好了. 另外很多人都推荐那种买的现成的奶比奶粉的喂道好, 可以先试试. -flying_cloud(流云); 2003-10-20 (#1422532@0)

小宝宝都很固执，米糊里加了奶粉，她就不吃了。：（我也打算试试那种现成的奶，如再不行，等她满10个月，她爸爸休假时，决定强行断奶。 -julia2000(自由鸟); 2003-10-20 (#1422544@0)

呵呵, 小家伙蛮精的. 我们家宝宝今天早晨煮粥, 她喜欢喝, 我就加一点点奶, 她觉察不出来, 接着喝, 我就又加一点. 不要让她觉得味道变化太大. -flying_cloud(流云); 2003-10-20 (#1422551@0)

：） -julia2000(自由鸟); 2003-10-20 (#1422552@0)

喂副食除了要换花样，还要坚持，不能他不吃你就不喂了。每天到该喂的时候就喂，哪怕时间长一点，慢慢她就习惯了。我女儿就是这样，原来牙关禁闭，现在终于肯开口了。 -julia2000(自由鸟); 2003-10-20 (#1422496@0)

If no specific reason, why not going on with breast-feeding? Breast-feeding is such a wonderful experience and enjoyable time I have ever had... -joyy(joyy); 2003-10-20 {820} (#1422699@0)

" express milk twice a day", does that means you need not do it at work? -qqqqq(qqqqq 有翼自薄); 2003-10-20 (#1422731@0)

I expressed milk into a cooling bottle at 11am and 2pm during workday and fed my son directly in the early morning and evening. -joyy(joyy); 2003-10-20 (#1422938@0)

Where can you do it? Washroom? Or your employer provided you another place? -qqqqq(qqqqq 有翼自薄); 2003-10-20 (#1422950@0)

Washroom. -joyy(joyy); 2003-10-20 (#1422977@0)

Thanks. -qqqqq(qqqqq 有翼自薄); 2003-10-20 (#1423156@0)

我的朋友就是上班时泵出来，先存放在公司冰箱里，下班带回去。 -julia2000(自由鸟); 2003-10-20 (#1422953@0)

唉，真麻烦：( -qqqqq(qqqqq 有翼自薄); 2003-10-20 (#1422959@0)

主要是母乳不够了，怕宝宝吃不饱，她又不吃奶粉，所以才想断了母乳后她是不是就会吃奶粉了。 -julia2000(自由鸟); 2003-10-20 (#1422813@0)

There are two choices: -joyy(joyy); 2003-10-20 {282} (#1422972@0)
1 Insist to breast-feed, at the same time, try to add formula. Normally, breast-fed baby will not like formula at once. You want to give her time to fit, gradually.

2 Wean. If u have other place to live, it’s much better; otherwise it’s so sad to hear baby crying for “food”.

谢谢。1，一直在试喂fomula，但尚未成功。2，做好心理准备，到时候准会陪宝宝一起哭。对老公也是一种锻炼。 -julia2000(自由鸟); 2003-10-20 (#1423043@0)

又要上班又要上学, 不得已要把孩子送到DAYCARE, 再说孩子只吃母乳已经不够营养了.我们决定下个星期再试试, 孩子哭我倒还能忍受. 喂奶粉的时候, 我藏起来, 不让看见, 他爸爸喂. 结果孩子再看到我的时候, 就特别委曲, 大哭. -flying_cloud(流云); 2003-10-20 (#1423075@0)

I fully understand you. At beginning, I also tried to hide from my son at feeding time, with the coordination of my parents. But... -joyy(joyy); 2003-10-20 {368} (#1423482@0)
he is so clever that kept looking for me one by one room, closet, back of the door and every corner of our house. He thought I was playing game with him. His crying made me heartbreak and I gave it up. Then, my parents gave me the idea to have 2 weeks vacation in US. It worked with less pain. This time my son quickly noticed I was not at home indeed and no more cry.

八个半月早该加副食了。太晚对宝宝不好：影响营养，影响说话，也影响断奶。宝宝开始不爱吃副食，一定要坚持。 -qq0785(花椒); 2003-10-20 (#1423148@0)

可能是我写的贴子误导了.四个月以后给她吃副食了,前一阵吃的挺好的, 每天早晚一小碗米糊, 中午吃些菜,水果什么的. 可是最近有二十多天了,什么都不肯吃. 有的朋友告诉我正常. -flying_cloud(流云); 2003-10-20 (#1423197@0)

是不是长新牙了？ -holly(只羡厨师不羡仙); 2003-10-20 (#1423204@0)

呵呵,我家小坏蛋至今一颗牙未长, 不过快出来了. -flying_cloud(流云); 2003-10-21 (#1424345@0)

那可能是长牙的关系。我女儿是在六个月时发生不肯吃副食的情况，现在好多了，她现在已经有六颗牙了。 -julia2000(自由鸟); 2003-10-21 (#1424408@0)

如果她没有不舒服的表现，吃多点吃少点没关系，小孩别看小，也和大人一样知道自己的胃口。 -dian(点点); 2003-10-20 (#1423249@0)

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